The Petition People
Funny thing… I’m picturing the table outside of my favorite store, which shall remain nameless, staffed with people whose goal it is to get my signature on a petition. Maybe two or three, if they’re lucky. Let’s call these folks the Petition People.
My personal annoyance at being approached like this aside, there are a number of ways this can go.
I see some people go over to the table and listen intently, eventually signing on to whatever the cause may be. So many questions for the signers – did you just now hear about this issue? What makes you think the Petition People are giving you both sides of the issue here? But I digress…
Sometimes the Petition People are in an aggressive-sales mood. They talk to you as you go by – Do you own a home? Are you happy with the taxes you’re paying? Their questions are obviously intended to get you to stop and discuss.
Basic principle: don’t grant the premise. As soon as I stop, even if it’s to argue the other side, I’ve wasted my time and made theirs worthwhile. Plus, they’re pretty good at this – I’ll probably lose the argument, and walk away frustrated and angry.
It bugs me because it goes against the grain of common decency, but the best way to run the gauntlet during campaign season is usually to duck and dash. Avoid eye contact. A modification is to have a phrase handy when approaching the table (while smiling as cheerfully as possible): No, thanks – not today. Sure, much kinder than what I’m actually thinking, but a little kindness never hurt anyone.
Next time I’m bombarded by thoughts that are against what God’s word has to say, I’m going to picture the Petition People. I’ll coach myself through – don’t make eye contact. Don’t grant the premise. Have a ready answer and, for goodness’ sake, keep moving.
I like your analogy! It works!
ReplyDeleteI choose to hear the truth today, no matter how tired and distracted I become.
ReplyDeleteI will refocus on your truth Lord. Thank you for telling me over and over again your love for me.